Both the cheater and the cheated are lonely, no matter how long they have been
married together
After the husband’s affair is revealed, the wife undergoes a tunnel of pain but once
treated with rage, she regains her pride and confidence and starts a new life which
she reforms around herself. She dismisses the jealousy towards the adultress or
bitterness.
The wife stops her interest in her husband whatever he does and the husband does
not find his affair interesting anymore.
An affair is thrilling only when there is a wife!
The husband loses his interest in his extramarital affair as he sees his wife weaving
her own life and making herself beautiful and happy without giving him a look. This is
what I mean when I say “ Don’t look but be looked at”
Ofcourse, the ignorant wife or the husband wants the very same thing but as do not
know how to approach each other, their relation gets estranged and as time goes
by, they would find their relation meaningless which usually results in divorce or
separation.
There were things that has been learned during the period of survival but the
loneliness still remains. Wives shop everyday, meet friends or make boy friends, but
still there is this emptiness. This is also true for the husband.
It is not easy for any woman to do away with what they have accomplished for so
many years.
For husbands, it is their wives that ther the most easy and also the most difficult
person to deal with. Whether they realize it or not, they are addicted to their wives.
However, a lot of women think that their husbands are capable of deserting family
and live happily.
Women think that when men have an extramarital affair, an adultery, they love the
adultress and they share something that cannot be shared with their wives, but
what they do not know is that everytime they have sex with the adultress, they tend
to feel more empty and uneasy.
Some couples seem to be leading happy lives as they possess same hobby but the
truth of the fact is that most of the relations are empty inside. I dare say that the
couple who quarrel everyday is more passionate and they tend to crave something
from each other and their lives are far much more interesting than thoses couples
that seem to be peaceful.
When the couple sex is no problem, the husband will feel free from sex and need
not crave for another women that can be costly and meaningless. The wife also will
feel happy and optimistic about life even though there is no sex.
Sure, most of the couple need to learn about proper sex, not only for others but for
oneself.
Regardless of husband, a woman need to learn about her body and sex and most
importantly, learn why a woman need to live a life so dedicate and sacrificing, and
why she needs a man in her life. Without understanding this, a woman regardless of
marital status, will feel lonely and empty.
Wise are those who through away anything that is judged to be wrong and get
ready for new things to fill them up with. Whether the new thing is harmful or
rewarding, it has to be digested and absorbed.
Your counterpart is man and you are a woman. o do not make judgment of your
counterpart with your rules and feel painful because of it.
We are so much different.
Estimate the passion that he possess and make his passion come towards you
and no towards other woman. This is what we (mand and woman) truly want.
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